Marriage
Marriage
is a form of ignorant presumption; it occurs when two people with no experience,
no expertise, and no ability suddenly assume they have superior expertise and ability
concerning the everlasting commitment they are about to make prior to getting married.
This overestimation happens because they don’t have enough knowledge about
marriage to know they don’t have enough knowledge.
From the
moment you are married and every morning after, the uncertainty that follows every
day is an adventure filled with smiles and tears in unequal amounts and always when
you least expect them.
Don’t
ever attempt to contemplate the commitment of marriage, you joyfully promised
on your memorable day, for more than five minutes. The more you think about it,
the more you begin to play the crazy game of ‘What If’ every time you look at
your spouse.
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The simple truth about marriage is knowing the correct moment when to say, ‘yes or no,’ and the correct moment is never actually correct, it is merely the beginning of a long conversation that hopefully ends in a compromise.
After 45
years, 16,437 days, I am still married to the same person.
I have lived the Dunning and Kruger Effect long before they ever thought about it.
j/k